Who we are is defined by our actions, not our words. And when I step back and look at my actions, I realize I am different than who I keep saying I am to myself.
I say I would like to learn to cook, but I never actually feel like cooking.
And I have learned by studying my actions that I am someone who buys refrigerator magnets of wise sayings with the intention of giving them as gifts and then keeps all of them for myself.